Changing Dynamics (and what we have discovered along the way so far) by Gilly

So, how have things changed now that we are over half way into our trip? Well, I am no longer stressed and my worry factor is practically zero (there is always something to worry about but this usually takes place last thing at night while I am trying to get to sleep e.g. is the place we are staying in going to burn down/fall down/wash away…etc)

This laid back attitude has unfortunately resulted in myself gaining several pounds which is mainly due to eating too much, drinking too many delicious flat white coffees and not getting enough exercise (if only I had packed my sports bra and trainers….) Not to worry, a barefoot, bouncy jog on the beach in the morning might help.

The kids are still getting on remarkably well, with the slight exception of the occasional long journey where a change of seating has been required i.e. me in the back of the car and one of the kids in the front to avoid continuous bickering and winding each other up. Also, Morgan has been trying out his swearing abilities and recently came out with the classic phrases: “Does the film Forest Gump have facial sex in it?” And – out of the blue – “Am I a Dick head?”

Despite these minor misdemeanours, I am so glad that we chose to take them at this age as we have spotted a few sullen teenagers along the way, with their ageing parents walking several yards behind them. I am sure that relations would not have been so good had we travelled in a few years time! It constantly amazes me that they have the ability to amuse themselves for hours on end, armed with just a few found objects and a HUGE imagination!! Long may it continue.

Still the best of friends.

We have also discovered that the kids…

  • will eat anything if they are hungry enough and there is nothing else on offer
  • will walk for at least two hours as long as there is a snack and some water and that they do not have to carry anything
  • can go for days (probably weeks) without even thinking about washing, cleaning their teeth or changing their underpants
  • can sleep pretty much anywhere (apart from on an overnight plane journey because they would rather watch all the movies)

    Fast asleep in the car.

  • their favourite chocolate (and ours) is Cadburys Dairy Milk Black Forest (can you buy it in the UK?)
  • only nag when there is something to nag about i.e. if there are no sweet shops they do not nag for sweets (same goes for toys, magazines, fish and chips etcetera)
  • love to be in water as much as possible (apart from the bath or shower)
  • miss school (it’s true!!)
  • are great travellers and great company.

The school work has been a little more challenging (sorry Mrs Mead!) As all teachers know, it is much, much harder to teach your own little offspring than any other child on the planet! We have done our best so far, learning on the go and when we finally have more than a couple of nights in one location, we grab a teaching day (much to the kids delight…NOT).

Working hard.

Luckily they are learning so much every day and usually are completely oblivious to this. For example, where we are staying at the moment, in Punakaiki, Western New Zealand, they have the most amazing ‘pancake rocks’ and blowholes. Perfect for learning about coastal erosion. (Humanities, tick.)

Pancake rocks and blowhole at Punakaiki

As a family we have encountered numerous challenges along our way:

Skinny flat white for mummy please.

unbearably long car journeys, sweltering heat, death-defying tuk-tuk and rickshaw rides, dodgy cockroach ridden hotels, pesky sandfly bites, bone-chilling winds on top of a mountain, monsoon rain, finding a good flat white coffee for me…… (I NEED my caffeine!!)

Some of these challenges could have caused marital break up (and those involving long car journeys and lack of caffeine nearly did). On the whole, we have pulled together and come out smiling (through gritted teeth at times or clenched buttocks during those really scary rides).

Ready for anything.

There have been times when we have missed our friends and family, (eMail and Skype have helped with this) as well as Milly the cat (please give her a cutch from us if you see her). Also, sometimes you just NEED YOUR OWN SPACE!! This is when you find time to go for a wander on your own, preferably to the nearest pub or café. Or take a long bath with a large glass of wine (this has only just happened, for the first time in 50 days, as we discovered our first glorious bathtub installed in the house at Punakaiki…. bliss!)

Our glorious bath!

Mr B and myself have had the added frustration of having to share our bedroom most nights with either one or both of the kids. Needless to say, this has not been the most romantic of trips but we have found a way, quietly, on the odd child free night!! Mr B has taken to running in the morning and taking a long shower afterwards……(He gets very dirty kids!)

All in all, the trip has brought us closer together as a family (so far!) and we have been lucky enough to encounter some of the most incredible sights, sounds, flavours, experiences and wonders of our amazing world. 

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5 thoughts on “Changing Dynamics (and what we have discovered along the way so far) by Gilly

  1. Really sorry if you got loads of versions of this blog sent to you!!! I have been having trouble posting it due to intermittent internet connection!! Gilly

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  2. G/Pat.

    Love the expressive blog and the photographs. Blog came just the once. Have not seen Cadbury’s Black Forest – will certainly check the sweet shops for it, and yes, you are right – this is the best age to take children on holiday, for their sakes as much as the parents. You are also lucky to have two such amiable children. Ditto the parents. Long may it continue. xxxxxx

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  3. Jen and Colin Creese

    You seem to have settled into the tour now Gilly – Where you are now at the B and B looks and sounds magic. Will continue sending your blogs to the Ashton school. Hope they read them! You all look very fit and healthy and more relaxed, I can`t believe you are two thirds through this trip.
    Will check Pentico cottage garden and take some pictures fo you. Hopefully next week.

    Love, Mum and Dad

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  4. Timothy

    I wonder if you are discovering the truth of TS Eliot:
    “We shall not cease from exploration
    And the end of all our exploring
    Will be to arrive where we started
    And know the place for the first time”.
    Sounds as if you are anyway, even if you don’t know it! Happy journeying!

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  5. I don’t remembver seeing them in NZ – maybe they’re just an Aussie thing – but Cadbury’s Snack bars are the way to go – six flavours in one bar. Yum.

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